Parents have a lot on their plates and can’t always take time to just enjoy their kids. That’s one more good reason God made grandparents.
![Loving Grandkids: What We Were Designed For](https://grandkidsmatter.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Loving-Grandkids-What-We-Were-Designed-For-featured.jpg)
At the National Association for Grandparenting, we seek to validate and empower grandparents as they bond with future generations in meaningful ways and leave a lasting positive legacy.
Parents have a lot on their plates and can’t always take time to just enjoy their kids. That’s one more good reason God made grandparents.
As we celebrate Mother’s Day, here are three great things about grandmothers that are likely to describe you.
Our grandchildren need the benefit of our experience and wisdom as they consider options and think through consequences of their choices.
Do things that help keep you young, bring joy to life, and make you “you.” And find ways to invite your grandkids into the experience.
It’s about much more than knowing riddles and funny stories. Let’s adopt a mindset and make a commitment to bring fun to our grandkids’ lives.
Like angels, we can be ambassadors or messengers from God for our grandkids–telling them about our faith and what matters most to us.
An extended stay with five grandkids opened Dr. Ken’s eyes to the challenges of parenting and the reality of his grandchildren’s world.
Maybe our bodies are limited at this age, but there are ways we can be active while connecting with our grandkids.
If you’re highly involved with your grandkids and still working, here are some thoughts and questions to consider.
A recent 11-day stay with three of his grandkids left Dr. Ken Canfield exhausted … and reflecting on the good things that resulted.
When our grandchildren see that we want what’s good for them, they will soon learn that we are dependable and trustworthy.
As a grandparent you have tremendous power to strengthen the next generation, and your presence will be felt for decades.
We can’t guarantee their future will be a certain way, but it’s even better to bestow huge amounts of hope on our grandkids, because that will carry them through whatever the future may bring.
It isn’t about being perfect, but rather making the most of our opportunities and persevering through the adversities.
Even in extreme cases, keep yourself open to reconciliation. You may never have that “ideal” relationship with your children and grandchildren, but it can get better. Here's why.
Nana’s House by Teresa Kindred: I know grandmothers who connect with their grandchildren via FaceTime and make the best of it, but it’s very challenging for them.
After social distancing, reentry into the lives of our grandchildren is situational. Each family has a different set of risk tolerances and levels of concern.
Now that I’m staying home more, I’m finding different ways to use my time. I find that if I stay busy, I’m in a much better mood than if I have too much idle time on my hands, especially since I’m not able to see my grandchildren except on the computer.